Here are some of the results from the current Vivid Sex Tracker Survey:
30% of you watch porn with a signifcant other and 37% of you don't but your significant other knows you watch porn
59% of you think porn stars are just as beautiful as mainstream stars and 20% of you think they are better
The majority of you watch porn in the evening (40%) or Late at Night (30%)
61% think it's ok to discuss porn in social situations (depending on the group)
The majority of you want to meet porn stars (79%)
59% of you think porn stars are just as beautiful as mainstream stars and 20% of you think they are better
The majority of you watch porn in the evening (40%) or Late at Night (30%)
61% think it's ok to discuss porn in social situations (depending on the group)
The majority of you want to meet porn stars (79%)
Now, I want to unpack this survey: analyze the results, break the fantasies, and tell the truth. First of all, since I started my anti-porn ministry, I have had several men and women tell me that they watch porn together and it is destroying their marriages; for most often, the man wants to recreate what he sees in the films: this often includes reenacting very violent forms of anal penetration, and even inviting another woman into the bedroom. Additionally, porn addiction, as reported by family councilors, is one of the major problems facing married couples who seek out professional assistance.
Second, to those who think porn stars are as beautiful as mainstream stars: I can testify to this very accurately because I have partied with both porn stars and A-list actors and actresses. And, for the most part, beauty shines from within. In my experience, the porn stars that I have met, and been with, especially the females, look very washed-out, old, and tired, when encountered in person. The veil of beauty that computer manipulation can provide, disappears under the harsh lights of reality. Consequently, the Hollywood stars that I got to become acquainted with, often exhibited the same phenomena of pre-mature aging, but to a much lesser degree than their porn counterparts.
Thirdly, the majority of porn is watched at night because it often accompanies masturbation in the male. This is an isolating, selfish, and shameful act. The desire usually occurs at the end of the day, as men want to blow-off the stress and anxiety of the day by watching porn and achieving a physical release. They can then, got to sleep, not think about what they did, and pretend that their conscious is clear.
Lastly, porn has entered the realm of polite conversation just for the sheer fact that so many watch it. Porn has become ingrained within the American social framework. Its is no longer taboo. Much of this is due to the power and availability of the Internet: where porn can be conjured up at anytime, and in any place. This over-saturation of porn, in turn, engenders, mainly in men, the desire to recreate the illusion of porn in their everyday lives. This is sometimes achieved by meeting their favorite porn star; or by reenacting pornographic situations in the real world. Its all a sick fantasy that only leads in one direction: Hell!